If You Love Me, Show It
If you love me, show it, but not with words, but with actions. Those beautiful terms that come out of your mouth are of no use to me to the delight of my ears. Don’t fool me with them, don’t confuse me. If you really love me, show it with actions.
In the world of the couple, or rather of the illusions of the couple, disappointments and disappointments are more and more frequent. A problem that is exacerbated due to the speed with which we start our relationships, without waiting for the other person to really show what they are like. In this way, we form an equivocal image that, over time, shows us its true face.
Infatuation blinds us
We must not forget that in the first stage of a relationship, falling in love blinds us. We are so excited that this person is part of our life that we forget to see everything from another perspective. Without wanting to and without wanting it, we are observing the reality that we want, not what it is.
It seems that at the moment there is nothing to prove. Everything is beautiful, there is a need to see each other and spend time together. You want to know each other more and that excites you, but it also becomes a smoke bomb if you stay with your feet suspended in the air too long.
It is also true that in these moments before a relationship, people show their best face. We don’t want to say that they lie, but we do mean that maybe they adorn their way of being a bit. That person so attentive and who cared about your well-being, suddenly no longer does. Has it changed? Is it not what I thought it was?
The truth is that neither of you will be wrong in your assumptions. For your part, you may have created unrealistic illusions and expectations about that person with whom you have wanted to share your life. Your partner may have used certain techniques to get your attention that they no longer need.
Let’s not forget that when we meet someone our goal is for them to notice us. If everything generates discomfort from the first moment, it will be impossible to start a relationship. For all this, with the passage of time it is not that people change, it is that they no longer have any incentive to demonstrate and give the best of themselves to make you fall in love again.
If over the years you have been disappointed because your partner has changed, reflect on it and try to see the situation in perspective. You may have formed an image of her that was not real. Every relationship changes over time. The routine, sharing moments together, the problems, everything influences.
For all this there is a very simple solution: communication. It is necessary to talk about this situation, see if you have separated from each other, what has happened so that you do not show your affection as you did before. Sometimes it is embarrassing to discuss this topic, perhaps because you have not done it for too long. But it is very necessary.
It is also important that you take some perspective regarding your relationship to see in another way how it has evolved. Sometimes we are not aware that we have been disappointed in that person because now he does not respect us, he mistreats us psychologically, he treats us with indifference. All this happens because that past full of illusions is still vivid in our mind.
It is normal that over the years relationships and people change, that is why we must talk about the relationship and try to regain what the person we have by our side fell in love with. Because we shouldn’t relax, because nothing is safe for us, and because if we try so hard in your day, why not keep doing it for the rest of our lives?
Never forget it, if you love me, show it, but with words that are supported by sincere and real actions.
